19 Signs You are in a Placeholder Relationship

When it comes to relationships and dating, it’s important to feel valued, cherished, and appreciated. However, sometimes we find ourselves in a situation where this is clearly not the case. Turns out it happens to the best of us. You’re a placeholder. Someone to pass time with until something better comes along. If you’ve been feeling like you’re not getting the love and attention you deserve, you might just be in a placeholder relationship.

Here are 19 telltale signs that might indicate you’re playing the role of a placeholder in your relationship.

1. You’re Always on Standby

If you’re constantly waiting for your partner to make plans or show interest, you might be a placeholder. A healthy relationship involves active participation from both sides.

2. Lack of Future Plans

Your partner avoids making long-term plans with you, whether it’s about vacations, holidays, or even discussing a shared future. I was once dating a man who was always telling me that I was being “too serious” and “let’s just see where this goes”. I was his placeholder.

3. Disappearing Act

They frequently disappear without explanation or go MIA for extended periods, leaving you feeling uncertain…