Being a “Pick Me” Woman Won’t Actually Get You the Man You Want
I get it. It’s rough out here in these dating streets. We’re at the point where we all need to be crystal clear on what it is we want. Then, we need to be strategic about implementing a plan to ensure success in the dating realm.
We each need to maximize our dating potential by increasing our appeal and optimizing our exposure to the kind of people we would love to get to know on a more intimate level.
The “pick me” mentality
The “pick me” phrase is a throwback to that time when you were in a school classroom and the teacher posed a question to the class, and you were so eager to be called on. You sat in your desk vigorously waving your hand in the air and shouted, “ooh oooh pick me. Pick me!”
When applied to dating, it describes a woman who wants to appeal to the men she encounters, in a way that could compromise her self-worth, self-respect, or standards, all so that she increases the likelihood of man selecting her.
The issue is not making yourself more attractive to potential partners. But, if you have to shrink yourself or dull your own shine to boost your attraction, this is the beginning of a slow descent that is bound to lead to disastisfaction in the long run.
The “pick me” makes a…
