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Ladies, It’s Important that You Demand More. For the Culture!
Women influence and guide the culture of how men court and pursue them. Therefore, it is fair to say that women as a collective are responsible for the status quo of men’s conduct. If we want different options and different behavior from men, then we have to stop rewarding bad behavior. Plain and simple.
Whenever I walk down the street and a man is hollering and being disrespectful with his approach towards me, it’s obvious this approach has worked for him in the past. If it had not, he would have stopped a long time ago.
Similarly with paying the bill on a date. Some women insist that they can and should pay, so naturally, some men now expect that a woman will contribute to the tab and get upset when they don’t “at least offer”. Sad!
Let’s go a step further, what about the men with small dicks, who are horrible in bed? Some women faked an orgasm and feigned immense pleasure, so those same men are walking around mistakenly thinking that they are Gods of Pleasure. I wrote about this specific topic here.
Before you complain about the quality options or lack thereof, think about how you have contributed to the current state of affairs. Most women are socialized to be kind, even in rejection and I’m not suggesting or insisting that you go around ripping men’s hearts…
