The Ex Factor: He is Not Giving Her More, She is Ok With What He Has
Too many of us are curious about the person that comes after us. Is she hotter than me? Is she better in some way? Is he doing for her what he didn’t do for me? It’s natural to be curious and by now I’m sure you’ve heard the old adage “Curiosity killed the cat.” The rarely told second part of that is, “But satisfaction brought him back!” Allow this post to be your satisfaction and help to quell some of that curiosity.
Shift Your Perspective
While it’s normal to ponder if anothr woman is getting from a man what you were not getting. The bigger question to ask yourself is, “So what if she is?” Why do you care about what a man is doing for someone else that he refused to do for you, or wasn’t capable of doing for you? In the movie of your life, where you are the main character, your ex is “dead in the water”.
Translation: He is non factor that should not matter anymore.
He could be doing things for her that you begged for. He could very well be treating her the way you so desperately wanted and needed in order to stay in the relationship.
However, remind yourself that the question was never whether or not he was capable of doing it for you. He did not and would not do it for…
