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What to Know about Erotic Asphyxiation: The Sexy Chokehold — Is It for you?
True confession. My name is Jacqueline and I love to be choked during sex. When my man is on top, and repeatedly thrusting in and out of me, it is the optimal time for him to firmly wrap his hand around my neck and gently squeeze. I ask for it. Sometimes, plead for it. Even demand it. It very much turns me on.
Why do I like it?
I’m seduced by the surrender of power. I’m fascinated by the way a man knows how to offer just enough pressure to turn me on, but not too much, so as to avoid a dangerous situation. It’s a skillset. Quite frankly, I enjoy being dominated and I’ve always been intrigued by power play in society at large, not just during sex. Being controlled in the bedroom really turns me on. Undoubtedly, there is also an adrenaline rush that comes from having the flow of oxygen restricted and then, released.
I’m not the only one that wants to be hemmed up during sex
Erotic asphyxiation is pretty popular. It’s on the lighter side of BDSM. I can recall one of my closest friends and I were having a frank discussion about sex, and I bashfully let on that I enjoyed being choked. Immediately, she lit up like a Christmas tree to acknowledge “oh my God, so do I”. It helped me to own it a bit more, knowing that I wasn’t alone in my desire to be…
